"I haven't communicated with Yangyang properly for more than five years. Our relationship as mother and son is very thin. If I went up and told him directly that he had to study hard, he would definitely be rebellious.
So, I chose a relatively easier way to get close to him, which was to play games with him.
Fortunately, although I entered this industry late, I was quite talented. I used about three months to train my gaming skills. Then, I started to play games with Yangyang.
Because I was good at games, Yangyang subconsciously treated me as a partner. Then, I used the excuse of teaching him how to play games as a reward so that he could study hard.
Yangyang also said just now that he often doesn't pay attention in class and sleeps in class. So, his foundation is very weak.
When I was explaining things to him, he often didn't understand what I was talking about. For example, he could understand the simpler things as soon as I explained them to him. However, for the more abstract concepts, no matter how many times I explained them, he couldn't understand them very well. I had an idea and connected the knowledge with the game so that Yang Yang could understand those more abstract concepts. Fortunately, this method worked.
"Lastly, I'm not saying all this to encourage everyone to play games with their children like me. I just want to say that if you want your children to study hard and improve their academic performance, that's fine. However, you have to know how to teach according to their aptitude.
It's not wrong to let your children study, but you can't just let your children only know how to study.
The ancients were particular about tension and relaxation. It doesn't make sense that we don't understand the ancients' principles.
Most of our children are 15 or 16 years old. This is the time when their rebellious mentality is the strongest. I don't know if everyone has experienced it, but the more you don't let your children do something, the more they want to do it.
It's like going against your request will make them happy.
In fact, they will be happy. If you don't believe me, you can ask Yangyang if he's happy playing games behind my back. "
All the parents immediately looked at Chen Yang.
Chen Yang quickly waved his hand. "No, I'm not playing games behind my mother's back. I'm always playing with her."
Under Jiujiu's gaze, Chen Yang muttered softly, "However, I do want to do something that my mother doesn't let me do."
Looking at Chen Yang's explanation, Jiujiu couldn't help but laugh out loud. "So, I hope that everyone won't blame your children for not knowing how to study hard.
Children have their own things to do. I hope that everyone can understand their hearts and understand their actions. Finally, give them the greatest tolerance and let them know that we're doing this because we love them. "
Jiujiu paused for a moment and added.
"I know that some parents like to add their own hardships to their children. Every time, they would say that if it wasn't for you.... I hope that parents who do this immediately......................... and...............................
I hope that you can understand one thing clearly. Even without your children, your lives will still be very tiring, and your lives will still be very hard.
Because life is like this. The accumulation of endless hardships and tiredness will only give you that little bit of sweetness.
All of this is your own fault. Don't add all of this to your child. Your child's life has just begun. His life should be as sweet as chocolate. It shouldn't be bitter and hard to swallow because of you. "
Jiujiu said, "That's all I have to say. Thank you, everyone."
After Jiujiu finished speaking, she went to talk to Chen Yang.
Seeing Jiujiu come over, Chen Yang's cheeks unconsciously blushed. He looked down at Jiujiu and said to Jiujiu, "Mom, you're so nice."
Although he used to think that Jiujiu was a nice person, today, he truly felt how nice Jiujiu was.
Jiujiu rubbed Chen Yang's little head and said with a smile, "I tricked you, and you still say that I'm nice?"
Chen Yang shook his head. "This is different." It was fate.
Although Jiujiu was tricking him, Jiujiu was also doing it for his own good.
Moreover, during the time that they spent together, he also gained a lot of happiness. If this was a trick, he was willing to do more tricks.
"It's indeed different. Oh yeah, it's still early after the parent-teacher conference. Let's go to the supermarket later. I'll make you whatever you want to eat. How about that?"
Chen Yang liked Jiujiu. Other than Jiujiu playing games with him, it was Jiujiu's cooking.
It could be said that Jiujiu's food was the best that Chen Yang had ever eaten.
Moreover, not only was Jiujiu good at cooking, but she was also very good at making snacks. The last time he gave Li Ming a piece of peach blossom cake, Li Ming was still talking about it and wanted to steal his snacks every day.
Thinking of Li Ming, Chen Yang asked Jiujiu, "Mom, can we bring Li Ming to eat with us?"
Thinking of Li Ming's clever look, Jiujiu nodded. "Of course, you can ask Li Ming what he likes to eat. I'll make it for him."
"Li Ming's mom's cooking is terrible. Li Ming will eat anything. Just make whatever you want."
Although he didn't want to admit it, when Jiujiu asked him what Li Ming liked to eat, Chen Yang was a little jealous.
After the parent-teacher conference ended, Jiujiu and Chen Yang went to the station to pick up Li Ming. The three of them went to the supermarket to buy groceries.
Li Ming's family structure was actually a little similar to Chen Yang's family structure.
The difference was that his father was still alive, but he had divorced his mother.
However, his mother was not like Jiujiu at all.
Whenever something happened to her, she would push the blame to Li Ming. Once Li Ming did something that she didn't like, she would say that Li Ming was exactly the same as his heartless father. He was born to annoy her.
When he first heard his mother say this, Li Ming's heart was full of guilt.
However, after hearing it many times, Li Ming no longer felt guilty. Instead, he was infinitely annoyed.
If he was really like his father, then why did she still want to remarry him?
Moreover, if she was really the same as her father, why would she snatch her custody away?
Moreover, ever since his mother smashed the figurine he bought last time, Li Ming was infinitely annoyed with his mother.
Unless it was necessary, he didn't want to say a word to his mother.
What was there to say about a person who could smash the things he liked into smithereens without his consent?
In Li Ming's heart, his mother was a symbol of irritable temper.
Especially his mother, who was the best among irritable and annoying people.
Therefore, after seeing Jiujiu, he liked Jiujiu very much. He even felt that a mother should be like Jiujiu.
Gentle and patient.
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