Not to mention how much harm childbirth was to a woman's body.
Everyone had their own choices. Some people liked children and were willing to give birth to their own children because they liked them.
Some people didn't like children, not to mention that they had to take risks that they didn't want to take in order to have children. Wasn't it normal for her to make the decision that she didn't want to have children?
So, when it came to whether a person was willing to have children, shouldn't it be that I think it's better to have children, but I respect your choice?
This kind of person who defined 'not having children' as' are you crazy 'as soon as she opened her mouth obviously didn't know what it meant to respect each other.
Jiujiu looked at Li Chen and said calmly, "Can I ask you a question?"
If Jiujiu had heard his words and become hysterical, Li Chen might have had some reaction.
However, after Jiujiu heard his words, she didn't get angry. Instead, she discussed it with him very calmly. He was instantly at a loss. He looked at Jiujiu with a puzzled expression.
Jiujiu looked at Li Chen and said, "Why do you think that women are crazy if they don't have children? Could it be that in your eyes, women are only good for giving birth? "
Li Chen's expression froze. It was only then that he realized that his words seemed to have revealed something bad.
However, he had already said it and couldn't change it. He could only say, "I didn't mean that. I didn't mean it. Don't take it to heart."
"But you can't accept that a woman doesn't want children, right?"
Jiujiu's question made Li Chen's expression freeze for a moment, but soon, Li Chen nodded and admitted, "Yes."
If Jiujiu had said that she wanted to delay having children for a few years, he would definitely have been willing to accept it. However, she had said that she wouldn't have children in the future, so he couldn't accept it.
The education he had received since he was young told him that he would definitely get married and have children in the future.
It didn't matter when the children would come, but if they absolutely didn't, then it definitely wouldn't do.
He couldn't watch his friends and classmates have children of their own, while he would never have children.
He could accept that Jiujiu quarreled with his mother because he knew that his mother wouldn't be angry with him no matter what. But after Jiujiu left, she wouldn't come back.
And now, he knew that Jiujiu wanted DINK. As long as he dared to agree, he would never have his own child in the future. So, he would never agree even if he died.
Jiujiu was not surprised by Li Chen's answer at all.
It was already very rare for a person with such a family background to agree to delay having a child. It was harder than killing him to make him never have a child.
Jiujiu looked at Li Chen with a smile. "I can understand where you're coming from, but I still insist on my own way of thinking. I don't like children, and I don't plan on having children in the future."
Seeing that Jiujiu was still insisting on DINK, Li Chen could not help but look at Jiujiu and ask, "Have you ever thought about what you're doing?"
"What does it mean?"
"It means that you won't be able to have children of your own in the future. Have you asked your parents for their opinions?
Are they willing to let you never have children of your own?
You're being irresponsible to yourself, to your parents, and even more irresponsible to your future.
Have you ever thought about what you'll do when you're old and sick and lying in the hospital without anyone to take care of you? "
Jiujiu answered Li Chen's questions one after another, "My parents respect my choice very much. Whether I want to have children or not in the future, they will respect my choice. As for what I'll do when I'm old and sick in the future?
I feel that as long as I have money, I don't need to think about these things at all.
Besides, who told you that there would definitely be someone to take care of you when you have children?
For example, my parents are in C City now. Unless there's a relatively serious illness, I can't take care of them at all. So, don't you think your last point is ridiculous?
Besides, your idea is completely influenced by the old idea of raising children to prevent old age.
Besides, there are so many practical examples that haven't made you understand that it's not about having more children, but about having a heart.
As long as he has a heart, a child can take care of everyone. If he doesn't have a heart, it'll be useless even if you raise a hundred children. "
After Jiujiu finished speaking, she saw Li Chen's thoughtful expression and continued, "I'm not sure if my future child will have a heart for me. It's not like I can't bear to have a stagnant career and a deformed body in order to give birth to a child who I don't know what the future will be like. So, instead of taking those unpredictable risks to give birth to this child, I'd rather he never appear. Do you understand what I mean?"
Jiujiu's words sounded reasonable, so it made Li Chen even more uncomfortable.
Li Chen could not help but say, "You haven't given birth to him yet. How do you know that your child won't be good?"
Jiujiu replied to Li Chen's question, "It's because I don't know if he'll be good in the future. That's why I chose not to give birth to him.
Because instead of spending so much time and effort to raise an unfilial and bad child, I might as well not give birth to him in the first place. That way, I won't be so sad. What do you think? "
Jiujiu's answer denied Li Chen's question once again.
Li Chen's expression instantly turned ugly.
Li Chen looked at Jiujiu's face and couldn't help but say, "You're just quibbling."
Jiujiu looked at Li Chen. "Then how can you prove that you're not quibbling?"
Li Chen was once again rendered speechless by Jiujiu's question.
Li Chen licked his dry lips and looked at Jiujiu. "It's natural to have children. What you're doing doesn't conform to the rules of human evolution. It's not good."
"After studying for so many years, haven't you realized that rules are meant to be broken?
If our predecessors had broken the rules, we would still be living in an era where we eat raw meat and drink blood. You're a highly educated person. The first thing you want to do when you encounter something is not to break the rules. Instead, you want to follow the rules. If everyone is like you, how can our society continue to improve? "
Jiujiu refuted Li Chen's words again. Li Chen was once again rendered speechless.
Li Chen looked at Jiujiu's face. After a long silence, he said, "I can see now that no matter what I say, I can't win against you."
Jiujiu smiled faintly. "How do you know that you can't win against me? It's not because the truth is on my side."
Li Chen pursed his dry lips again. "You have a glib tongue. I can't win against you. However, I have to make my stance clear. I can't accept your DINK matter, and I won't accept it.
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