After the military training ended, Feng Ru naturally got together with Li Yuan.
Feng Ru had the mentality of a typical young lady. When she liked someone, she especially liked to stick with them.
Even if the two of them did nothing and just stayed quietly together, sitting on a stool to look at the stars and moon, she would be happy for a long time.
As for Li Yuan, when he first liked Feng Ru, he was very satisfied with Feng Ru's clinginess.
When he liked someone, he naturally wanted to stick with them 24/7. Feng Ru liked to stick with Li Yuan, and Li Yuan liked to stick with Feng Ru. When the two of them started dating, their relationship was simply too sweet.
In the beginning, the dopamine in the brain led the relationship. As the dopamine decreased, the novelty slowly decreased, and rationality took over the brain again.
Being in a relationship was like having a new toy.
When you first got this new toy, you wanted to play with it.
However, after playing for a long time and getting tired of it, even if you still liked it, you did not like it as much as you did at the beginning.
It was the same for dating.
In the beginning, Li Yuan really liked Feng Ru and really wanted to stick with Feng Ru 24/7. However, after the initial novelty period, rationality took over his brain. He gradually discovered some of Feng Ru's shortcomings.
Even the good points that he used to think of Feng Ru had become shortcomings.
Feng Ru's clinginess turned into insensibility and did not give him any personal space. The little temper that he liked previously became willful.
Previously, he had told Feng Ru that playing games was not as important as him. Now, it had become "Can't you be more sensible?"
Feng Ru, who was perfect in his eyes before, was now full of flaws.
He was clearly the same person as before, and nothing had changed. However, in Li Yuan's eyes, Feng Ru had become dull.
Men would make a lot of promises when they were in love. Perhaps they were very serious when they made the promise and really wanted to treat that woman that way.
But weren't vows and promises used to deceive women?
In the beginning, he was very serious, but as he spoke, he became less serious. In the end, even he himself did not know what he had said.
Li Yuan was the same as all the other men. He was like that.
But women were different. Women were sensitive and serious.
When the man made that promise, the woman was overjoyed and remembered every word he said in her heart.
As the man's hormones decreased, his attitude towards her changed slightly. The woman started to feel uneasy. Did he not like her anymore? Did he not love her anymore?
When a woman started to feel uneasy, most of them would try to make trouble for the other party to notice them. They would even force the other party to quarrel with them to see that the other party cared about them.
In the beginning, men might be patient and coax you.
However, when the number of times increases, the man will also become impatient, and then will not continue to coax you.
Unwilling to coax you, and not wanting to quarrel with you, cold violence is born.
Cold violence means that I don't quarrel with you, and I don't care about you.
In a few days, when you are better, I will come and find you.
If you ask me why I am treating you like this, he will say that I am a man and can't quarrel with you at that time, so I can only be silent.
What a perfect reason.
Clearly, a woman would think all kinds of things because of a man's silence.
All day long, she would think about whether he didn't like her, whether he didn't love her, whether he was going to break up with her.
But a man, he didn't think so much. He even thought that the chicken pot he ate last time was delicious, and he would go there next time.
When a woman quarreled with a man, most of them just wanted the other party to tell them that he liked them. As for a man, he did not want to coax a woman and chose cold violence.
Actually, most women quarreled with loud thunder but little rain. As long as you said that you liked me and I loved you, it would definitely be fine.
But a man would rather give you the cold shoulder than say this to you.
On the surface, it was because he cared about you and didn't want to quarrel with you, but deep down, it was because he didn't care.
If he cared, how could he let her let her imagination run wild?
Feng Ru and Li Yuan were like this.
In the beginning, Li Yuan would patiently coax Feng Ru, but when Feng Ru quarreled with him many times, Li Yuan directly ignored her.
When Li Yuan first gave her the cold shoulder, Feng Ru seemed to have gone crazy and desperately looked for Li Yuan.
However, Li Yuan completely ignored Feng Ru. Even though the two of them were in the same classroom, he did not look for Feng Ru or talk to Feng Ru.
Being treated like this by her favorite boyfriend, Feng Ru broke down on the spot.
When Feng Ru's roommates saw Feng Ru crying so miserably, they kept comforting Feng Ru, but Feng Ru did not listen to a single word.
This was because her mind was filled with the thought that Li Yuan was treating her like this. Did he want to break up with her?
If it wasn't because he wanted to break up, how could he treat his girlfriend like this?
Feng Ru kept calling and texting Li Yuan to ask if he wanted to break up with her.
But Li Yuan did not reply.
When Feng Ru was extremely sad and had begun to accept the fact that Li Yuan wanted to break up with her, Li Yuan slowly appeared and told Feng Ru that he did not want to break up with her, nor did he dislike her. It was because he felt that Feng Ru's previous state was not right. If she spoke to Feng Ru, the two of them would definitely quarrel.
He was a man. He did not want to quarrel with Feng Ru, so he chose to remain silent.
Now that Feng Ru had recovered, he came back.
When Feng Ru heard Li Yuan's theory for the first time, she was dumbfounded.
She had never thought that her boyfriend would watch her suffer and finally appear to tell her that he did not want to break up because he did not want to quarrel.
Feng Ru felt that if he did not want to quarrel, then she should stand up and talk to him.
However, Li Yuan did not. He only said that he did not want to quarrel.
In the beginning, Feng Ru could still comfort herself that all of this was because of the difference between men and women.
But after a few times, Feng Ru became numb.
In fact, she already knew that Li Yuan did not like her as much as she thought.
And she was not that important in Li Yuan's heart.
Torture after torture made Feng Ru suffer, but it also made her realize what kind of person her boyfriend was.
In the end, after being ignored countless times by Li Yuan, Feng Ru proposed to break up with him.
Feng Ru was exhausted by this relationship. Because of this, she even had the thought of not continuing to be in a relationship.
However, less than a week after she broke up with Li Yuan.
She saw Li Yuan holding a girl's hand and walking in the school field.
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