"What are emotions? Buddhists say that there are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, illness, and death, separation, resentment, unattainable desires, and the five yins. The eight sufferings give birth to greed, anger, stupidity, hatred, love, and evil desires.
Confucianism says that there are eight virtues in life: filial piety, friendship, loyalty, trust, propriety, righteousness, integrity, and shame. Emotions are restrained by morality.
Daoism says that the heavens and earth are heartless and treat all things as straw dogs. The saints are heartless and treat the people as straw dogs. Therefore, the heavens are selfless and there is no competition.
These sayings all revolve around emotions. From this, it can be seen that emotions can give birth to philosophy, psychology, morality, and so on. "
"Then how do we analyze emotions in modern times? I divide them into four types: love, family, friendship, and bestie. "
"There is a reason for this order. Love is the most complicated, so I put it first. There is a saying that is very good: love is a kind of purity, friendship is a kind of breadth, and family is a kind of depth. But these emotions are not clearly separated. They blend and change with each other. First, let's talk about bestie. Among the students here, do any of the girls have a bestie? Do any of the boys have a close female friend? "
"Yes!"
The students responded one after another.
"Bestie is a state of being more than a friend, but not yet in love. They can be promoted at any time, but they may not be able to get a 'title' in their lifetime. It is mixed between love and friendship. "
"A spare tire?" a girl said.
"Not a spare tire. That would only be an insult to bestie." Professor Liu shook his head. "A spare tire is more like a person leaving a way out for themselves. Bestie is a real and indispensable emotion. I believe that everyone has such an experience. When you encounter troubles in life, you don't talk to your family or your best friend. Instead, you talk to a special member of the opposite sex in your life. Usually, this person who you can talk to is not a lover who is better than a lover, or a relative who is better than a relative. "
Qin Bao Bao said enviously, "I also want a bestie."
Wang Zijin complained softly, "Go find one. Don't just be All-Mouthy King."
Qin Bao Bao sighed. "I also want one, but all the men who come into contact with me covet my beauty."
Wang Zijin turned to look at Qin Ze.
Qin Ze said agitatedly, "Bullsh * t, you have to ask me if I agree."
"Let's talk about friendship. Friendship is the most indispensable emotion. A person can live without love, or even family, but they can't live without friendship. That will make you feel very lonely. According to medical statistics, 90% of autistic patients were caused by a lack of friendship. Therefore, friendship was a kind of breadth. At the same time, friendship could also be transformed into love. That's where the concept of boyfriend and girlfriend comes from. "
Some students raised their hands. "But not all friendships will turn into love. It's only applicable between the opposite sex."
Professor Liu laughed and said, "You're still too young. Where do you think the term 'gay friend' came from?"
The crowd roared with laughter.
Qin Ze also laughed. This Professor Liu's lecture was indeed very humorous and profound. There was a lot of content. It was unlike the web novels he had read, which were full of fake goods with huge waves.
"As for kinship, it's probably the warmest kind of feeling. Love can change, friendship can betray, and family is the most difficult feeling in a person's life. The love between parents who gave birth to you and raised you, the love between brothers and sisters. It has a strong blood bond and is a lifelong bond. Kinship can also be very complicated sometimes. To a certain extent, it's the transformation of love. Love is like fireworks. It's gorgeous and beautiful, but it may not last long. We often say that husband and wife have a seven-year itch. In fact, it's a manifestation of love that wears away over a long period of time. At this time, because of the fetters of children, most couples will transform love into kinship. Between an old married couple, they lived and interacted more like family. Young couples will be deeply attached to each other. The ancients have long seen through this essence. In their view, a husband and wife who treat each other with respect is the most perfect and reasonable model. "
"But …" Professor Liu changed the topic and threw out a bomb. "Kinship can sometimes transform into love. We call it taboo love. "
There was a low uproar among the students.
This topic was embarrassing. Some of the girls even blushed.
F * ck!
Qin Ze said in his heart, "Brother, what are you going to say next? Can we change the topic? " This kind of taboo thing will be censored if it's mentioned. I'm still young. Can you withdraw it?
Qin Bao Bao frowned.
"In a narrow sense, promiscuity refers to the improper relationship between people who are related by blood. Chaotic (harmonious) relationships in the broad sense, including the narrow sense, were improper relationships between men and women between people of different seniority. It's the traditional sense of the five relationships. What are the five relationships? Heaven, Earth, King, Family, and Teacher. " Professor Liu spoke with fervor and assurance. He was not embarrassed at all. His face had an expression of "this is a serious academic exchange". As expected of a returnee who studied abroad. His mind was very open.
Qin Ze said in his heart, "Promiscuity? That's amazing. Is there a hero in the world? "
"Taboo love has a very long history. The definition of it will change in every era. For example, everyone knows that cousin marriage is normal and legal in ancient times, but it is not in modern times. In modern times, teacher-student relationships and relationships between superiors and subordinates were very common. In ancient times, it was not recognized and tolerated. The similarity is that the improper relationship between people who are related by blood is not recognized in any era. "
"Today, we will focus on talking about the behavior of family turning into love." Professor Liu said, "Don't feel embarrassed. This is an academic exchange."
A boy suddenly raised his hand, "I think the behavior of family turning into love is very absurd and funny. Anyone with ethics and morals would not do this."
Professor Liu smiled and said, "This is very in line with the general view. However, this does exist now. It is not very common, but it is not rare. Especially in foreign countries. In ancient times, there were many similar phenomena. Take the Tang Dynasty, which was known for its open atmosphere. Emperor Taizong of Tang once wanted to make Li Yuanji's wife the empress. Later, empress Wu Zetian and Yang Guifei had served the emperor and his son. However, these have nothing to do with what I want to talk about. Let's not talk about it for now. "
"How does family turn into love? From a psychological point of view, there are two reasons: environment and emotional needs. Note that it is not a biological need. From an objective point of view, this kind of phenomenon often exists in abnormal or unhappy family relationships. Single parent families are especially likely to cause a Father and Mother complex. This is a manifestation of a child's insecurity. Some psychological experts believe that children must get rid of the Father and Mother complex in order to develop a healthy personality. Some mental and sexual abnormalities in adults are unable to get rid of the Father and Mother complex. "
"These are psychological diseases and mental illnesses. They are abnormal and unhealthy. Father and Mother complex is very common, but it is rare to have an improper relationship. The probability of this is greatly increased between siblings. "Professor Liu said," Are there any 2D fans? "
Suddenly, there was a commotion. Most of them were boys.
"In Japanese 2D works, there is a phenomenon called" sister complex ". It accounts for almost half of the works. People who have seen similar anime can see that the sisters in the works are very dependent on their brothers. Every sister complex is antisocial and antisocial. In their world, there are very few members of the opposite sex other than their brothers. Their brothers are everything in their world. Therefore, they have a strong dependence on them. If other girls get close to their brothers, they will be very angry. The sisters also have a common attribute: tsundere. They like their brothers, but they do not dare to say it. They obviously care a lot, but they pretend to be "in their eyes, my brother is just a salted fish". The reason is that this is a kind of feeling that is not recognized and accepted. "
"I call it Dependent (Harmonious) Love. This principle also applies to siblings. If you find someone who is very dependent on their brother or sister, then it is very likely that you have a brother complex. "
"A writer once said that novels come from life and are more important than life. It was the same for comics. Japanese 2-D comics were exaggerated. In real life, the sister-con was very subtle. They probably do not realize that they have such abnormal feelings. They even think that it is normal to be intimate with their brother or sister. "
"Is there anyone with a sister complex here? Raise your hand. "Professor Liu joked.
There was complete silence.
Qin Bao Bao suddenly said, "Nonsense."
She was very angry.
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