A poem once said, "In October, the leaves fall in autumn, and the people on the road are desolate. The small bridge and the flowing water are far away, and the heartbroken person is Xiao Lan … "
It was talking about a chubby little girl who was running on a deserted path on a cool autumn afternoon. This was the most serious run she had ever run since she was born, but she was very determined and never looked back. Even though she was out of breath, she never thought of stopping to rest!
At this moment, she was the chubby version of Usain Bolt, the cute version of Forrest Gump, and the gray wolf who never gave up …
"Huff huff, huff huff!" Lan Xin finally arrived at Xi Xi's house and eagerly returned to her friends. Of course, she was still very tired. When she came back, she was so tired that she collapsed on the grass and gasped for breath.
Xi Xi and the others didn't continue to play in the house because there were more and more people. It was more open to play in the yard! Moreover, it was three o 'clock in the afternoon, and the sun was shining brightly. It was a good time for outdoor activities!
When Lan Xin came back, Xi Xi and the others were playing the game of eagle and chicken. They were so happy that no one noticed Lan Xin who had sneaked in.
In this round, Chen Shiyun was in charge of catching the chicken, and Nan Zhaoyu was in charge of being the mother hen. Chen Shiyun was so aggressive that Nan Zhaoyu was a little scared. He still had the courage and desire to protect as a boy, so he tried his best to open his arms and stop Chen Shiyun.
Of course, the girls behind him were much more powerful than him. They all giggled and hugged the waist of the girls in front of them, dodging quickly. Chen Shiyun couldn't find any loopholes to break through!
Suddenly, she found a "chicken" that had "fallen" on the ground. She jumped up excitedly and held Lan Xin. But soon, she found that she was happy too early!
"Hey, Xin Er is back!" Chen Shiyun shouted.
Only then did her friends see Lan Xin, who was still out of breath.
"By the way, Xin Er, why are you back?" Lu Xiaoyu scratched her head and poked her head out from behind Xi Xi. She asked curiously, "Didn't the homeroom teacher go to your house?"
"Yes, yes! Could it be that Teacher has already gone back? "Xi Xi was a little anxious.
Teacher hasn't come to my house yet!
Lan Xin also wanted to answer the question, but she was so tired that she couldn't speak. After a long while, she panted and said concisely, "No, it's still there, but, but the teacher agreed for me to come and play!"
Hearing Lan Xin say that the teacher was still here, Xi Xi breathed a sigh of relief and recovered her smile.
In fact, Lan Xin was usually happy to talk about her feelings, but she was still gasping for breath and didn't want to talk much.
After a while, when Lan Xin had rested enough, she couldn't wait to join her friends in the game. How could she have the time to chat?
"Okay!" Lu Xiaoyu looked at Lan Xin pitifully. She knew the power of the teacher's home visit, but she didn't say anything. Instead, she excitedly called out to everyone, "Let's continue playing! Chen Shiyun, you didn't catch anyone just now, but catching Xin Er doesn't count! "
Chen Shiyun didn't deny it. She rolled up her sleeves and shouted energetically, "I will catch you guys! Come on! "
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On the other hand, at Lan Xin's house, Li Ruolan was discussing Lan Xin's learning problems with Lan Zhou Kai and Wu Jingjing.
Just as Wu Jingjing said to Yu Ying, Lan Xin's grades had indeed regressed. In the last few tests, Lan Xin's grades had dropped from eighty to seventy. Li Ruolan came to visit because of this.
Of course, Li Ruolan didn't come here to push the blame onto the parents. She described some of Lan Xin's problems in more detail.
For example, she was absent-minded in class, cut corners on homework, and didn't seriously complete the task of memorizing the text that the teacher asked her to do …
In addition, Li Ruolan also conveyed the feedback from Mr. Lu Dashan, who was in the physical education class. "Lan Xin doesn't like to participate in sports. You should know that Lan Xin is a little fat. If she doesn't exercise and lose weight, it will be a big burden on her body in the future. It will also affect her academic life in the future."
Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing kept nodding. Lanzhou Kai even frowned and said, "Yes, Mr. Li is right. It's just that Xin Er is a little difficult to discipline. If we scold her a little more, she will be in a bad mood for a few days. If we hit her, her mother will stop me …"
"You can't hit or scold a child." Li Ruolan quickly waved her hand and said, "Hitting and scolding a child is not a good way to educate a child. On the contrary, it is easy to make the child have a rebellious mentality."
"Actually, I think Lan Xin is a very good child. Whether it is IQ or personality, she is a very good child!" Li Ruolan said calmly to Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing, "It's just that you may need to cooperate with us outside of class. Give your child more patience and use some clever methods to cultivate her concentration."
"I am a little busy with work. Usually, her mother is at home taking care of the child. Mr. Li, if you have any suggestions, just tell her." Lanzhou Kai patted Wu Jingjing's knee and said.
"Yes, I will definitely cooperate. But Mr. Li, to tell you the truth, Xin Er, this child, has a serious procrastination problem. Xi Xi finished her homework as soon as she came back, but she procrastinated. One moment, she said that she wanted to eat, and the next moment, she said that she wanted to watch TV. She procrastinated until she was about to go to bed at night and still didn't finish her homework." Wu Jingjing complained to the teacher.
"In fact, most children don't like to do homework and like to procrastinate. But in the face of these situations, we parents should be more skillful in dealing with them. " Li Ruolan smiled and said, "Let me give you an example. There is a boy in our class named Wang Leilei. His situation is similar to Lan Xin's. His father told him that if he didn't finish his homework, he couldn't watch TV! So in order to watch TV, he worked hard every day to finish his homework first! "
"But every child's situation is different. Lan Xin is a girl. Maybe you need to be gentler in order to prevent her from having a rebellious attitude." Li Ruolan said, "You can do this. When the child comes back, you can do something with her first."
Li Ruolan took out her notebook and gestured as she said, "Ask her, what homework does she have for language today? What homework does she have for math? What homework does she have for English? Write them down one by one on white paper and compare the amount of homework for each subject! "
"At this time, you have to do a sequence. We parents have to take the initiative and help her organize her thoughts. Start from the simplest homework that has the least amount of homework and is the easiest to complete! This is because the child will feel a sense of accomplishment after completing a part of the homework. This way, she will be more motivated to do the next part of the homework! "
"But at this time, or before the third grade, I still suggest that you take time out to accompany the child to do her homework." Li Ruolan said, "You don't have to watch her write every word, but you need to be by her side. When you are with her, you can knit sweaters or do some work that is very quiet. But you can't play with your phone. We parents have to set an example. "
In addition to these, Li Ruolan also talked about a lot of motivational tips. These were all experiences that she learned from books, from other teachers, and from some successful parents.
Just as Li Ruolan said, she came to the home visit to help the child grow up, not to call on the parents and teachers to play a double team for the child. After more than an hour of detailed discussion, Li Ruolan patiently analyzed and gave suggestions. Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing benefited a lot.
Although Lanzhou Kai was a billionaire and had a high status, at this moment, he was just an ordinary father!
How could a parent not care about their child?
Lanzhou Kai was also very worried about Lan Xin's studies, so when he heard that the teacher was visiting, he rushed back without hesitation.
What was worth being happy about was that he didn't come back in vain. The teacher's home visit really gave him a lot of inspiration.
Just as Li Ruolan was about to leave and Lanzhou Kai invited her to stay for dinner, Yang Yi came to cut in.
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