Lin Li ignored the look in her eyes and focused on the food in front of her. She knew that she would have to spend a lot of time and effort trying to reason with her. She knew that she was going to have to spend a lot of time trying to reason with her. So now she had to comfort her stomach.
She took a sip of soup calmly. "Don't you doubt your feelings for Wan Qianqing? You want to love her well and make her happy. You even want everyone in the world to treat her well according to your wishes. But," she emphasized and stared at her. "What have you done for her? If you love her, you should do it yourself. Why do you want others to do it? "
Mother Wan was completely stunned. "But I really do love her!" She didn't understand. Was the method she had used in the past wrong? She couldn't understand it and had never thought about it.
Lin Li had to stop eating. "Auntie, take her current situation as an example. What does she need the most now? Someone is taking care of her, but what did you do? You despise Zhao Kai for not taking good care of her and are angry with Father Wan for not doing his duty. But you are her mother. What have you done for her? Why can't you take good care of her yourself? "
After hearing that, Wan Ma still didn't understand. "What ability do I have? Her father is rich. Why doesn't he let her spend or use it? I went to him to fight for something for her. Isn't that what I should do? "
She really didn't understand. Hadn't she done enough for Wan Qianqing these days? She had even gone to Wan Qianqian's place a few times. If she wanted to, she had to control Wan Qianqing. Although she didn't control her before, she knew that she lived a good life. How could this girl say that about her?
Lin Li didn't rush to persuade her. She quietly finished the food in front of her. Then she looked at Wan Ma seriously. "You should eat quickly. We'll talk after you're full." Only when people were not affected by any external forces could they have a good chat, say what was on their mind, and accept other people's opinions more easily.
Wan Ma complained about Wan Qianqing and her life in confusion. She ate the food in front of her as if it was a dish to go with wine. Lin Li glanced at her. "Auntie, does the food not taste to your taste?"
She swallowed the delicious food in her mouth and hurriedly waved her hand. "No, the food here tastes pretty good." After all, Mother Wan's living expenses were quite limited. She didn't eat out often. As long as she changed her taste, she felt that it was okay.
Lin Li chuckled. "That's good. That's good. Take care of your stomach, then you'll have more energy to discuss problems with others." There was a hint of teasing in Lin Li's tone as she spoke.
Wan Ma couldn't help but chuckle. "Doctor Lin's words always make sense. Don't tell me our Qianqian is so close to you." In her impression, it should be Wan Qianqian who wanted to be friends with Lin Li.
Lin Li naturally told the truth. "I was conquered by Sister Qianqian's charm. That's why I wanted to be friends with her." After saying that, she stared at Wan Ma's face. This woman was really interesting. Even at this point, did she still think that Wan Qianqian was inferior to Wan Qianqing?
Or could it be said that in the depths of her heart, she looked down upon Wan Qianqian? The reason was because she was carried here? No matter how hard she worked, what achievements she had achieved, or how much help she had brought to her?
Sometimes, people would be like this. Deep in their bones, they would believe that someone's status was not equal to theirs. No matter what, they would feel that they were inferior to them. Under the guidance of this mentality, they would never be able to correctly understand the other party's value or their sincerity. It was a sad fact, but it happened all the time.
Wan Ma ate the food in front of her and said, "Actually, our Qianqian is also very capable. It's just that her father and I might have neglected her back then." She suddenly realized that if she didn't say something good about Wan Qianqian, it seemed that Doctor Lin would be unhappy. She had to build a good relationship with Doctor Lin now.
Lin Li chuckled. "Auntie, let's not talk about Sister Qianqian today. Let's talk about you and Wan Qianqing!"
Although the atmosphere at the beginning wasn't bad, she felt that it wouldn't be an easy task to completely convince Mother Wan. She was a little old and very stubborn. She had lived with this stubborn belief for most of her life. It was almost impossible for her to change now.
"Okay. I'm her mother. Of course, I want to do more for her, but I don't have the ability. I can't even take care of myself now, so what can I do for her? " Wan Ma was like a person who had climbed out of a pit and fell into another pit. She only emphasized the things that she was unable to do, and avoided talking about the things that she could do.
Lin Li looked at her. "Auntie, everyone has their own ability. Of course, everyone is different. Some people are very capable and can do things that many others can't, while most people's abilities are limited. But no matter how limited their abilities are, as long as they are alive, they all have their own abilities. They all have things that they can do. "
She had to use a solid reason to frame her first. She had to make her realize that she was definitely capable.
After listening to her words, she nodded, but immediately shook her head. "Doctor Lin, what kind of ability do you think a person like me can have? I want to help my Qianqing, but what can I do? I don't even have my own living expenses. "Thinking of this, her eyes became gloomy, and she felt a little down.
In the end, she took the initiative to change the topic to herself. This was a very good thing. She could continue the conversation along this topic.
"What can you do? You have to consider Wan Qianqing's current situation." She could have talked about this with her properly yesterday. Today, she just mentioned it, and then looked at her face, hoping that she wouldn't forget what she had said so quickly.
After hearing her words, Wan Ma couldn't help but be stunned. She had said it repeatedly yesterday, so she naturally remembered it. Thus, she said to Lin Li as if she was making a promise, "Don't worry, I will definitely cooperate with Zhao Kai and take good care of her. But do you think this Zhao Kai will really love us Qian Qing? Won't he abandon her? "
She looked very worried, and looked at Lin Li nervously. She really didn't know what she should do if such a thing happened. She really didn't have any concept in this area.
Lin Li let out a long sigh. "Auntie, we only care about the facts and what is happening now. As for what hasn't happened, whether it will definitely happen in the future or it might happen in the future, we don't have to care so much. Don't worry about the future, just live the life we have now."
Actually, people should be like this. As long as you live the life you have now, what will happen in the future? Even if you are so worried now that you can't live the life you have now, what can you do?
Or perhaps the more you worry, the more things will develop in the wrong direction.
Wan Ma nodded, not fully understanding, and then began to eat again. That's right, how could she understand it so quickly? Some people couldn't understand a principle in their entire lives, but she understood it with just a few words from Lin Li. It was too unrealistic!
But after thinking for a moment, she still asked seriously and doubtfully, "Doctor Lin, tell me, how can my Qianqing think that her mother is a bastard?" She really minded this matter. She couldn't accept the daughter she loved so much talking about her like this. "I really think of her no matter what I do."
From a mother's point of view, it was definitely wrong to talk about her like this. She still had a certain amount of love for her child, but she seemed to be doing it from a different point of view. She only wanted others to treat her child well, but she never thought that the child was her own. She just had to treat her well. What did others have to do with her?
"Can you give me one or two examples of how you treat your child well?" Although Lin Li felt a little tired, she still treated Wan Ma's situation seriously based on her professional ethics as a doctor. After all, Wan Ma was her best friend's adoptive mother. If she wanted her to help, she would definitely help.
Wan Ma, on the other hand, was very calm. "I won't talk about distant things. You won't understand even if I tell you. Let's take Wan Qianqing's car accident as an example. The first thing I did was to look for Wan Qianqian and ask her to take responsibility for Qianqing. If it wasn't for her, how could she have ended up like this? "
Lin Li couldn't help but be stunned. This person's thinking was really abnormal.
"Wan Qianqing's car accident was completely her own fault. What does this have to do with Wan Qianqian? Why should she take responsibility for her? She's already very magnanimous for not pursuing Wan Qianqing's responsibility. "Lin Li's tone was a little heavy. On one hand, she felt that there was something wrong with Wan Ma's thinking. On the other hand, she felt that it was unfair for Wan Qianqian.
Hearing what she said, Wan Ma didn't dare to say anything. She originally thought that she had done an excellent thing, but why did it feel like she had done something wrong?
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