Under her gaze or pressure, he was a little hesitant. But was he really going to marry Rong Xiaoxiao? Was that certificate really that useful? If it was true, there wouldn't be so many divorces and extramarital affairs now.
"Sister, why did you suddenly think of this question? Didn't you and brother-in-law not get that certificate? Why do you have to force us? Besides, it's usually the old men and women who urge people to get married. How can it be related to such a beautiful sister? "He said as he looked at Wan Qianqian's face. He thought that she was really not normal today.
She was stunned by his words. He was reasonable and flattering her. She really didn't have the heart to continue to press him. However, there were some things that she had to ask. Otherwise, she wouldn't know how to respond when he asked. She didn't know what to say.
However, she was still different from the traditional parents. She had to understand their thoughts first, and then give them an answer that matched their ideas. But in the traditional sense, parents only followed their own ideas and let their children blindly do things according to their ideas.
"Hehe, I'm the sister. Now we have no other relatives to urge you to get married and have children, so I can only do it. Otherwise, how can we let you stay unmarried and childless? " She knocked his head. "Tell me, what's your attitude towards marriage and family?"
She also knew in her heart that she couldn't show him clearly. It was better to keep some for herself. After all, sometimes as a parent, she still needed a certain degree of prestige.
Her expression was abnormally serious. This was a serious question. Naturally, she couldn't joke around. "I'm telling you seriously. You must think clearly before you answer me." She reminded him that this matter really couldn't be sloppy. In fact, it was something that everyone should think about before getting married.
It was just that ordinary people didn't think about this problem. They were just pushed by time and the world. When they reached a certain age, they got married and had children. Then, there would be a lot of misfortune and pain. Some people have the courage to divorce, but their lives will never be the same from then on. Some people don't even have the courage to divorce, and can only continue to groan and wail in the swamp of pain.
Ling Yuxuan's attitude also became solemn. He thought about it seriously and then said rationally, "Rong Xiaoxiao and I really love each other. If we don't see each other for a day, it will feel like three years have passed. This was something that had never happened before in my life. It's just that I'm afraid neither of us are prepared to enter marriage and live a simple life! "
What he said was also the truth. Although they looked like a married couple, the feeling was still different. Without the marriage certificate, everyone was free and felt that they were still single. But what if he had that certificate? He would always think twice before doing anything.
Another point was that both of them had such large consortiums behind them. It was just that it wasn't easy for them to deal with the economic benefits. Although the two companies were also cooperating, it was a cooperation between two companies. Both parties had their own departments to take charge of this matter, so they didn't need to spend too much energy to take care of this matter.
However, Wan Qianqian didn't think so. She thought that it was very simple. She stared at him and said slowly, "What do we need to prepare for a marriage? You don't need to think about material things, but you are both adults in spirit! When people reach a certain age, they meet the person they like and want to stay together for a long time. Isn't it normal? "
She couldn't help thinking of her first marriage with Gu Tanfeng. At that time, they didn't tell anyone about it, and they didn't even have a simple wedding ceremony. Wan Ma, Wan Qianqian's father, agreed, and Lu Yunxue also acquiesced. The two young people naturally got together, although they had an accident later and they had been separated for five years.
But now that she thought about it, she still loved Gu Tanfeng. She was even thankful to him because he was the reason why she had Xin Yue and Xin Yi.
Ling Yuxuan nodded, but then shook his head. "Sis, for people like us, of course we don't need to think about material things, but we still need to think about it. But I still have to think about it. Think about it, the consortium behind Rong Xiaoxiao is no weaker than our Ling Group. Even if I want to get married, will your family agree? Marriage is a big deal, so I can't be so hasty. "
Hearing his words, Wan Qianqian couldn't help but be puzzled. "What do you mean by hasty? Is it considered being serious if you keep thinking about it? "
She couldn't understand some of their thoughts, but she could understand that some people were afraid of marriage.
After all, in this society, people were under great pressure, and it was possible for anyone to feel pressure. And it was possible for this pressure to manifest in any aspect.
Ling Yuxuan shook his head. Of course, he didn't think that constantly thinking about it was a serious attitude. He just felt that he hadn't thought it through clearly and needed to think it over carefully. "Sis, although my relationship with Rong Xiaoxiao is very good now, who can guarantee that it will always be good in the future? What if I really don't love her anymore? "
Wan Qianqian was stunned. It was true that every relationship and marriage started because of love, but how many of them ended up going their separate ways because they quarreled so much that they couldn't reconcile?
This was the most real existence. If one didn't think about it, the beginning of marriage would be a little sad. But if one thought too much, how would one start their marriage life? Who could guarantee that their heart wouldn't change in the next few decades? Who knew what would happen?
"Yuxuan, there will be unknown and unpredictable difficulties and pain in our lives. Even when eating, we might choke. But have you ever heard of anyone refusing to continue living because of this reason?" She said seriously. Everyone should understand this logic, and no one could avoid it.
After Ling Yuxuan heard that, he nodded. That was indeed the case. "Sis, you're right. But I think that I, Rong Xiaoxiao, am still young. It's not bad to live freely for a few more years. After all, if I get married, it wouldn't be good if I'm always rushed by you. "
It was a little far-fetched for him to say that. Wan Qianqian probably wouldn't rush him too much. He was also a little worried that he would have to deal with some family matters after marriage. Although his family relationship was simple, Rong Xiaoxiao's was rather complicated.
Wan Qianqian knocked his head again. "What kind of reason is this? Love belongs to you and Rong Xiaoxiao. Aren't you worried that such a good girl will be snatched away by someone else? Do you know that although this society doesn't lack beauties, there are few beauties with such a quiet temperament? "She reminded him. Actually, she was still thinking about Lin Li.
Seeing that he was still silent, she couldn't help but remind him, "Have you forgotten about Lin Li? If the two of you had gotten married earlier and announced it to the world, perhaps their wedding wouldn't have been held. "
At the mention of Lin Li, Ling Yuxuan's heart still moved heavily. After all, she was the woman he had once loved with all his heart. Although she had hurt him deeply, he still had a different kind of feeling when he thought about her. It was just that Rong Xiaoxiao was really outstanding now, and she occupied his heart. And Lin Li was like a faded old photo in the depths of his heart.
Everyone said that women were sentimental, but men weren't necessarily heartless. That kind of feeling for someone they had once loved was just deeply concealed by them.
"Sis, don't say anymore. I will seriously consider marriage with Xiaoxiao, and I will also talk to her." He seriously thought for a moment and then said, "But I have talked to Xiaoxiao, but she doesn't seem to want to get married right away."
Wan Qianqian looked at him and then said earnestly, "You, Xiaoxiao is a rare good girl. If you don't even ask for marriage, how can you know her attitude? "This was true. If a man didn't take the initiative, would he let the woman take the initiative? Although Rong Xiaoxiao had pursued him at the beginning, it couldn't always be the woman who took the initiative, right?
Ling Yuxuan nodded. He had carefully thought about it and examined his heart. He really loved Rong Xiaoxiao. This kind of feeling was different from the feelings he had for any woman before, and it was also different from the feelings he had for Lin Li. For Rong Xiaoxiao, he wanted a good and happy life, and he wanted her to be by his side at all times.
This kind of feeling was like getting a treasure, and he wanted to protect it well, but he was afraid that he couldn't handle it well. This kind of heartache was deep in his bones.
"Sis, I understand. I will definitely have a good relationship with Rong Xiaoxiao. Let's take her first, and then we will talk about other things. "
Ling Yuxuan quickly decided in his heart. In any case, he must treat Rong Xiaoxiao well, so that she would never want to leave him in her heart, and then he would propose to her. In any case, things like what happened to Lin Li must never happen to him again.
Indeed, if that kind of thing happened again, he was afraid that he, Ling Yuxuan, would really start to doubt his life from then on. In order to prevent that kind of thing from happening again, he would also make great efforts.
After listening to his promise, Wan Qianqian nodded, "Well, you work hard!" In the end, this kind of thing, of course, could only rely on himself. How could others help?
Ling Yuxuan nodded, "I understand. But sis, what will her parents talk to you about in the afternoon? You must help us at that time! Even if it's marriage, don't push us too hard, right? "
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