This matter was indeed tricky, and it wouldn't be as easy to deal with as imagined. However, a person who didn't understand the internal rules of the Rong Family could only listen to the decision of the person involved and cooperate with them on how to deal with this matter.
"Xiaoxiao, are you sure that this is what your parents want to talk to me about?" Wan Qianqian looked at Rong Xiaoxiao and asked.
She nodded seriously. "It should be this matter. Apart from this, there's nothing else. Ling Yuxuan and I have visited them. They shouldn't be able to find any fault with us, right? "She was a little distressed and didn't understand what her parents were trying to do.
After hearing her words, Wan Qianqian said worriedly, "But I may not be able to help with this matter. Did Uncle or Auntie ever tell you what to do? "Other than being a middleman, she probably couldn't do anything else. Of course, she was the best candidate to persuade them.
"They didn't tell me specifically." Speaking of this, Rong Xiaoxiao was a little embarrassed. After all, she always felt that there was a deep generation gap between her and her parents, and she didn't want to communicate more with them. She went to see them, but only to see them. Most of them didn't even eat with them. They just met and said a few words before leaving.
Wan Qianqian glanced at her and then looked ahead. They had already reached the first floor of the shopping mall. She understood in her heart. Nowadays, how many children were willing to communicate well with their parents? She was afraid that the communication barrier between children and their parents was really difficult to solve. She could only find someone who could act as a medium for them.
"Xiaoxiao, in fact, parents will sincerely do what's best for us. But sometimes the method may not be very suitable. We should understand them more." That was all she could say for now. Every family had their own way of getting along. After all, Rong Xiaoxiao had also been treated the same way by her parents. It was understandable for her to have lingering fears or to have a certain estrangement.
And it would take a long time to eliminate that estrangement.
Therefore, no matter how close people were, they couldn't use too extreme methods. Otherwise, once the damage was caused, it would be impossible to erase the traces of it for a lifetime.
Rong Xiaoxiao nodded obediently. "I'll remember, Sister Qianqian!" Although Wan Qianqian wasn't a parent in the traditional sense and wouldn't give her and Ling Yuxuan any pressure or obstacles in their relationship, after all, Wan Qianqian was also her sister. She couldn't be too ostentatious. After all, she had to make Wan Qianqian happy.
Hearing this, Wan Qianqian was very happy. With regards to her family's situation, this was more or less enough. However, when they were having dinner later, he would have to understand her and Ling Yuxuan's feelings for each other. Did they have any plans? For example, to marry or not to marry? As long as it was what they truly thought in their hearts, it was fine.
"Which floor is for eating? Should we go up directly or take a stroll first? " This shopping mall hadn't been open for a long time, but there were quite a lot of people. It looked quite splendid and luxurious, and the quality wasn't low.
Rong Xiaoxiao looked at the time and said directly, "Let's go up and eat first. After eating, we can continue shopping if we have time. If not, we can go next time!" She really felt a little hungry. Moreover, she had an urge to eat delicious food when she came here.
"Okay!" The two of them went directly from the elevator to the sixth floor where there were all kinds of delicious food. They found a restaurant first, then found a seat and began to wait for the food to be served.
The business here was really booming. There were quite a lot of people around. The two of them came quite at the right time. They had just sat down when a few more people came, and naturally, they had to line up.
The speed at which the food was served was also quite fast. Not long after, the food was in front of them.
Before they started eating, Wan Qianqian asked a question, "Xiaoxiao, you and Yuxuan are so close. Have you ever thought of giving yourself a guarantee? For example, taking a test or something? " She wanted to ask this question as lightly as possible, so the words she used were a little hip-hop.
When Rong Xiaoxiao heard this, she chuckled. "Sister Qianqian, I didn't expect your words to be so humorous. Actually, what do you think having a certificate has to do with feelings? There are a lot of people who have certificates, but what can they do? "
What she said made sense. She agreed with this point of view, but it couldn't represent tradition. If she wanted to persuade people to stabilize their relationship, she couldn't always use the logic in her heart to do it.
At this moment, she suddenly felt helpless. Actually, in life, how many people said things that they didn't mean and used logic that they didn't believe to persuade others? Could the effect really be good?
"Xiaoxiao, a certificate has nothing to do with feelings, but it has a certain relationship with the child. If you want to register your child now, you need the marriage certificate of both parents. Besides, most of the time, women are always in a vulnerable position. In order to find a basis to protect themselves on the legal level. "
Hearing her words, Rong Xiaoxiao nodded. "That's true. So, sister, I think women need to be self-reliant, and not find legal protection for themselves. Can the law really protect a woman's happiness? "
Of course, the law only protected some things on the material level. As for some things on the spiritual level, it was really rare. Nothing in the law obligates a person to love another, nor does it obligate a person, once married, to live with him or her to a ripe old age. It was more to remind people of their responsibilities and obligations.
And if they took responsibility and obligation to one person, they were destined to let down the other person they loved deeply, and the other person also loved them deeply. That was why the world was full of pain and torture.
In the name of responsibility and obligation, many people condemned others, but they couldn't help but do things that hurt others. Most of the time, this society lived in deep pain.
When the day came when the law clearly stipulated that people didn't care too much about fame and profit, and shouldn't hurt others in the name of responsibility and obligation, this society could really prove itself.
If there was love between two people, then they should cherish each other, love each other, and live a good life together. Once the love disappeared, then they should break up. As long as it was a sincere and understanding breakup, it should be blessed by everyone.
Breaking up wasn't the reason for a bad life; it was to let each other live their own lives better.
After the two of them said that, they couldn't help but fall silent. They both went through a mental struggle before Wan Qianqian said softly, "To put it bluntly, this society always thinks that women are the weak, so there are many stories about them. As long as women really become strong and don't think of themselves as weak, the situation will be different."
Indeed, if there were no more vulnerable groups in this world, how could there be so much harm?
After hearing this, the two couldn't help but smile. Indeed, if a woman was strong enough to compete with a man, why would she worry about being abandoned by a man?
"Let's stop talking. Our goal now is to let our stomachs have a good taste of these delicacies."
The two stared at the food on the table that was still steaming, and their eyes were shining. Food was the most important thing for people. Only when they were full could they have the strength to talk about problems.
"Well, it tastes good!" Wan Qianqian put a mouthful of crispy tofu into her mouth and ate it excitedly. She felt that the two of them were actually quite similar in some aspects. Their persistence in love could be said to be exactly the same.
Rong Xiaoxiao said, "Well, the taste of this restaurant is really good. Look at this beef, it's very tender." Both of them could be considered senior foodies. When they were eating, they were also quite good at judging the food.
When the dishes were all served, the two of them chatted while eating. Wan Qianqian felt that she should still understand their attitude towards marriage. In this way, when Rong Zhongde asked, she could give her own reasonable suggestions.
"Xiaoxiao, if the parents want you to get married, do you agree? Have you discussed this with Yu Xuan? " She really didn't ask Ling Yuxuan. It seemed that she should still care more about him in the future. She still needed to understand some of their thoughts.
Rong Xiaoxiao swallowed a mouthful of food. "Sister, didn't I say that it actually doesn't matter whether we get married or not? As long as two people really love each other, then they can be together. If one day they don't love each other, then they can separate on good terms and go their separate ways to find their own happiness. Isn't that also good? "
Although Wan Qianqian agreed with this point of view in her heart, she subconsciously felt that if this was the case, she would definitely not be able to explain it in front of Rong Zhongde and his wife.
She chuckled. "Sister knows that this is what you think. Have you talked to Yu Xuan? Many people think this way when they are not in love, but once they meet the right person, the person that they miss, they want to stay with him forever. They hope that there can be an external force that can bind them well, as if they want to give themselves a kind of determination! "
"Sister, how can you think so? Ling Yuxuan is the person that I love the most in my life. But I feel that the more I love him, the more I need to give him enough space to let him live freely. I did talk to Ling Yuxuan about this. He is a bit traditional and wants to get married. Both of us will respect each other's views. "
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