"Oh, my dear Da Hua, you are really great. How did you make so many delicious dishes? Not only is there millet porridge, but there are also fruits. If it were my son, he wouldn't be able to do 1/3 of what you did. Oh, it's really great. How good would it be if you were my son? What a pity."
When Song Dan heard Da Hua's voice, she felt that it was special.
She was thinking about how great it would be if this child was her own child. However, why couldn't her own child do this? On the contrary, her own child was nothing compared to her. How could this be? Why is this world so terrible?
In fact, her child might be able to do it a little, but the main problem was that her child was lazy. Because of laziness, it seemed that she couldn't do it. Therefore, sometimes she felt sad because she wanted her child very much. She would feel happy if she could do it.
Everyone would think that if their children could be more diligent and do more things, they would feel very happy. However, if they couldn't do it, they would feel a little sad. In fact, this was very normal. After all, sometimes human beings had such simple thoughts.
However, seeing other people's children doing so well while their own children couldn't do anything, sometimes they would feel extremely sad, but they couldn't say it out loud. They could only watch helplessly. Sometimes, this kind of feeling was really a very bad feeling!
But what can I do? After all, it is other people's child, not my child. Therefore, whether other people can do it or not, I can only watch and do it.
I just think, how good would it be if my child can do it so well? I just think, how good would it be if my child can do it so well?
However, there were many things that could be completely discovered. In a word, it was impossible. After all, if their own children could do so well, then why would they need to envy other people's children? But if I envy other people's children, it means that my child can't do it so well, so the only thing I can do is to envy other people's children!
But sometimes, I feel very sad. My child may be able to do it well, but it is more troublesome, so I can only envy other people's children. But why do other people's children do it so well? In comparison, why was her own child nothing at all? Aiya, there is no harm without comparison. This saying is too true!
Therefore, no matter what, there must be no comparison. If there is a comparison, then it means that many things will make you feel particularly hurt. It is really such a situation.
If you don't want to be hurt, then you can only not compare. After all, if you compare, you will find that you will be particularly hurt. This is certain.
Because other people's children were doing so well, but their own children were doing so badly. What could they do? Other than accepting it, what else could they do? It is my own flesh and blood that fell from my body. Don't you accept it? After all, it is my own child. No matter how well others do it, they are not my child.
So in other words, sometimes parents are resentful of their children for failing to live up to expectations because of this reason. More often than not, they will feel that my child is so much worse than other people's children. Obviously, they are the same age, the same age, and the same intelligence, but in the end, they will find that their child is hundreds of times worse than other people's children!
Then, they will especially not understand why it is like this. Why is my way of education wrong? But it doesn't seem to be the case. What is wrong with my way of education? How did it become like this? Why is it like this? I just don't understand and want to ask, but no matter how desperate I am, it seems that I have no other way. I call and I have no other way.
However, for other people's children, I seem to have no other way except to envy them. Is it because of other people's children? It has nothing to do with you. Even if you want to confirm that other people's children are your own, what can you do? Other people's children are so great. Other people's children are so good. However, they are not your child. Other people's children have no other shortcomings. The only shortcoming is that they are not your child.
In other words, exhausting someone to the point of speechlessness was something that accompanied the soul. Moreover, it was a kind of helplessness!
But in fact, it seems that as parents, they always feel that other people's children are very good at doing small things, but no matter what they do, it is worthless. Most parents are like this. Why do they compare other people's children with themselves? It is just to motivate themselves.
Moreover, when other people's children do small things, their families will praise them. However, no matter what I do, my parents are not satisfied. In fact, parents always have a special idea of me, so no matter what I do, there is no way to give them a satisfactory answer.
So now, although Ba Tu was drinking the well water seriously, Song Dandan didn't even look at it.
"Oh, I think I have to eat now. I'm so hungry. I can't take it anymore. I vomited everything in my stomach yesterday. Now I feel that my stomach is empty, so I have to eat. If I don't eat, I will starve to death."
However, at this moment, Song Dandan felt that she should eat something. If she didn't eat something, she would starve to death. She really felt that her stomach was very uncomfortable.
I think it's better to eat something and fill my stomach. I will feel better. ,,,.
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