The woman hurriedly shook her head and waved her hands. "We've always been poor. How can children from poor families be spoiled? Children from poor families all suffer and grow up with grievances … Spoiling is something that rich families do."
"Spoiling doesn't refer to material things," Xu Yun said seriously. "Spoiling refers to spiritual and educational things. Many rich children who are born with a silver spoon in their mouths have always received the best material life. They aren't spoiled and are very sensible. They know what gratitude is. "
The woman was stunned. This was a principle she had never heard before.
Spoiling wasn't material, but spiritual?
"Perhaps you've always owed him material things, but you've always spoiled him spiritually," Xu Yun said. "Otherwise, he wouldn't have become like this today."
"He's very good. He's a very sensible child." The woman hurriedly put in a good word for her son.
"Very sensible? If it wasn't me who came today, but their Chairman Song, I believe he wouldn't continue to use him. " Xu Yun said bluntly, "If he was my driver, I wouldn't hesitate to fire him."
The woman's expression was obviously shocked. "Why … Why …?"
"The reason is very simple. Because he doesn't even care about the most basic filial piety. He definitely won't be loyal to his job, his position, his company, and his boss. "Xu Yun:" You can understand such a simple principle, right? "
The woman shook her head.
"Then let me think about it and put it more bluntly and simply." Xu Yun wasn't impatient. If it were the woman's son, he probably would have been impatient long ago, right?
There were very few children who were impatient with their parents, so few that it was pitiful.
Xu Yun continued, "You, as his mother, worked hard to raise him and brought him up to where he is today. He's not grateful to you. As a boss, I only give him a salary and don't take care of him. He definitely won't be grateful to me. Tell me, why should I, as a boss, use such an ungrateful employee? "
The woman nodded in realization. At this moment, she truly understood what Xu Yun meant.
"That's why I said that if I had such an employee, I definitely wouldn't put him in an important position." Xu Yun: "People who don't even know how to write the word 'filial piety' will definitely not be able to write the word 'loyal'. Why should I let such a person work for me? "
The woman lowered her head in shame.
She thought about how she had educated her son …
Xu Yun was right. She was a typical parent who spoiled her child spiritually. Her love for her son was unconditional. Although she would never satisfy him materially, she would always spoil him spiritually.
Ever since he was young, she would never let her son suffer any grievances other than material things.
She had always felt that her son had suffered a lot of material grievances, so he couldn't suffer any more grievances in other aspects.
It was precisely because of this that this guy, who had always been mentally spoiled, would not be grateful for his mother's care when he grew up.
He had never thought about how difficult it was for his mother to take care of him alone and raise him. Instead, he felt that his mother had let him down and made his life so difficult.
All of this wasn't his initial fault, but his mother's education. It was his mother who kept emphasizing that she had let him down. It was his mother who kept emphasizing that it was her that made his life so difficult.
Therefore, subconsciously, he thought that everything was his mother's fault. His mother had always let him down and owed him! Not that she was indebted to him!
"It's your fault that your son has become like this today because he's not filial to you." Xu Yun: "There's a saying in Hua Xia, 'An unfilial son is the father's fault'. As a parent, sometimes you should think more about it."
At this moment, the driver came back with the coffee.
Xu Yun took a cup of coffee and handed it to the woman. The woman's first reaction was to give it to her son because he only bought two cups.
But at this moment, Xu Yun's gaze fell on the woman. "There's a saying in Hua Xia, 'A filial son is born under the rod'. If some children are really bad, a few beatings and scoldings really don't matter."
"I understand." The woman nodded.
The driver was a little confused. He didn't understand what they were talking about.
"If you feel that your mother has embarrassed you, then pretend that you don't have a mother like me in the future." The woman suddenly said to her son, "It's my fault for educating you like this. I'm willing to bear all the consequences."
"Mom? What do you mean by that? " This was the first time he had called her "mom" in a long time. In his opinion, it didn't matter, but at this moment, his mother's face was already covered in tears.
The woman turned and left, throwing away the coffee in her hand.
The driver was even more confused. He thought to himself, 'If you don't want to drink, then give it to me! This cup of coffee costs 15,000 won! ' Because it was Xu Yun who asked for it, he didn't dare to buy the cheap one. He bought the most expensive coffee.
One must know that 15,000 won was enough for him to have a very, very big meal. He was never willing to spend more than 5,000 won on a meal!
Although he took the receipt and was going to reimburse this money, he still felt the pinch!
15,000 won was enough to buy a few cabbages.
"Mom … What do you mean by this?" Although he called his mother, his tone was still a little bit of complaint. It seemed that his mother didn't give him the so-called face in front of Xu Yun, which made him feel very embarrassed.
That was why he felt a little uncomfortable.
But the woman didn't look back at him anymore.
Only when a person is about to 'leave' them would they realize how precious this' close relative 'is … So when his mother no longer paid attention to him, he was really disappointed in his heart!
This feeling was very uncomfortable. It was even more uncomfortable than when he didn't want his mother to appear, but when his mother appeared, she embarrassed him.
"You can't take back what's spilled." Xu Yun drank the coffee and said, "That cup of coffee spilled. Can you put the spilled coffee back into the cup?"
"Of course not," the driver answered without thinking. There was no need to think about this question at all.
Xu Yun nodded. "Sometimes, kinship is the same. When you think it's fine, you can hurt it without restraint. But when your kinship is spilled like this cup of coffee, it's hard to get it back."
The driver's Adam's apple moved. Although he was a little worried, he felt that Xu Yun's words were a little too alarmist.
After all, that was his mother! He didn't believe that his mother would ignore him.
"You have always been unscrupulously neglecting your own mother. Do you still feel very disappointed when you suddenly think that your mother is about to neglect you?" Xu Yun smiled. "This is kinship, and what you've lost today is precisely this most precious relationship."
"I … I won't lose it." The driver naturally refused to admit it.
"In the past, even if you didn't call her mom, she would still listen to you. But today, when you called her, she ignored you. " Xu Yun: "Your kinship seems to have fallen into a very deep crisis. Make up for it. Maybe there's a possibility of getting it back."
"What exactly did you say to my mother?" The driver didn't understand.
"I just told her that your unfilial behavior was caused by her behavior. And your unfilial behavior will become a hindrance in your career because no boss will raise an unfilial employee, "Xu Yun said.
Perhaps the driver still didn't understand his mother's difficulties.
His mother could be so ruthless because she wanted him to wake up and understand what "filial piety" was. That way, he wouldn't be fired by his boss in the future … Thinking of this, she ignored her son even if he called her "mom."
She understood Xu Yun's education very thoroughly. She knew that if she didn't teach her son enough lessons, her son wouldn't really wake up and wake up.
Xu Yun looked at the "heartless mother" who left without looking back. There was only admiration left in his heart.
The driver was completely stunned. He stood there and didn't know what to do.
Xu Yun waved his hand and motioned for him to return to the car. "It's better not to stay in a place where you can see the ups and downs of society. I don't like emotional things, so take me to a more prosperous place with more beauties. At least that way, I'll feel better."
Although the driver really wanted to talk to his mother, Xu Yun had given the order, so he had no choice but to obey. He decided to go home at night and take out his savings to buy some beef. He wanted to have a meal with his mother and have a chat.
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