Fang Ya tried her best to make herself look as calm as possible. "Lin Ge, when do you think … we should get married?"
Lin Ge was startled. It was not that he had not considered this problem before, but every time he thought about it, he would feel quite guilty. He had been together with the girl for so long, and they had already shared the same bed. Furthermore, Fang Ya's parents knew about this. To ensure that his working hours would be more stable, Fang Ya had spent a lot of effort to transfer him to the ground service department.
Now, in order to be with Lin Ge, Fang Ya had sacrificed a lot. She even left Shen Jiang and came to Qingdao. Therefore, she left her parents' side. This was all Fang Ya's sacrifice … Although Qingdao was definitely a charming international city, and it had hosted the Olympic Sailing Competition, it was still somewhat inferior to a metropolis like Shen Jiang.
Lin Ge had always been very touched by everything Fang Ya had done. He also cared about Fang Ya very much. Although he wouldn't see her for a few days because of important matters, as long as they were on Qingdao, except for working hours, they were almost always together.
Now that Fang Ya asked this question, Lin Ge felt that he had neglected his duty. As the man, he should be the one to ask this question, not the girl. After being together for so long, Lin Ge hadn't proposed yet … This was also what made Lin Ge feel guilty.
He was afraid that Fang Ya's parents suspected him, so they asked Fang Ya to ask this question. This was what Lin Ge was worried about.
Seeing Lin Ge's expression, Fang Ya knew that he felt guilty in his heart. She hurriedly explained, "Don't think too much. I just asked casually. My family isn't in a hurry. I'm not in a hurry."
"I'm in a hurry." Lin Ge suddenly raised his head and said, "I'm in a hurry to marry you …"
Although Lin Ge had left Hua Xia when he was young, he had an advanced idea of marriage. Just like some Europeans and Americans, when they got married, they even had to send an invitation to their parents. If their relationship was not good, it was possible that they would not even invite them.
However, Hua Xia people were Hua Xia people after all. They had Hua Xia people's rules. In the past, although the so-called matchmaking was laughable and should be eradicated, this was something left behind by the ancestors. There was still a reason for it. Therefore, even if there was free love now, it was still important to pay attention to the parents' opinions.
Most of the time, the marriage of their children was more like a large-scale stage performance for their relatives and friends. It was extravagant and wasteful at the same time, but even so, the parents still enjoyed it.
Lin Ge had never dared to face this problem because he also had a traditional heart. But he didn't have parents to take care of it for him, so how could he open his mouth? After getting their marriage certificate, the two of them could just fly to the Maldives for a one-month honeymoon and come back? Would that work?
If Fang Ya's parents were traditional people, would they be at ease with a marriage without a wedding ceremony? Weddings and weddings were about the combination of marriage and etiquette, not just a marriage certificate.
"Then hurry up and marry me. I can't wait to get married." When Fang Ya heard Lin Ge's words, her heart felt warm, but she also knew that her words would lead to a more important question. "Say, who will help you organize your wedding?"
"I …" Lin Ge also had a headache about this problem. Should he ask his master? He had long been detached from the world. If he were to attend the wedding, he might not even be interested in participating in the secular world, let alone organizing it. It was unrealistic, really unrealistic.
Was he going to ask Big Brother Yun to be the organizer? That was definitely not possible … Xu Yun was a young man after all. This matter had to be done by the older generation to show respect. If Xu Yun were to appear, what if Fang Ya's parents felt that it wasn't respectful enough?
Lin Ge had a headache after considering all kinds of things. He really didn't know who would help him organize his wedding.
"It would be great if your parents were here." Fang Ya smiled slightly and tried to hide her nervousness as much as possible. She drew the question out. "Then you wouldn't be so troubled."
Lin Ge nodded helplessly. Yes, he hadn't thought about having parents for a long time, but today when Fang Ya said that, the desire in his heart was ignited again.
"I also want to, but I can't count on it." When Lin Ge said this, he was very depressed. "I'm afraid God won't give me this opportunity."
"That's hard to say." Fang Ya said. "Maybe God will arrange a little angel to inform them because you want to marry me. Then they will appear. Then, there will be someone to help you. Haha … So, I'm not in a hurry. I'm just saying it casually. Lin Ge, I won't make things difficult for you."
Lin Ge shook his head with relief. "You didn't make things difficult for me. You never did. I have always owed you. I wronged you … Really, Fang Ya, I will make you happy for the rest of your life. "
"I believe in you." Fang Ya said. "I believe in my own choice. I will be happy."
Lin Ge suddenly raised his head and looked out the window. "I don't even know what kind of people my parents are … What kind of people do you think they are? They even abandoned their own child … Don't they have any sense of responsibility? Are such parents not worthy of my trust? Maybe I'm lucky to not have them. "
"What nonsense are you talking about?" Fang Ya said. "No matter what kind of people they are, no matter if they did something wrong or not, I believe that no parent would abandon their own child unless they were forced to do so. I think … they must have their own difficulties. You should understand them. "
Lin Ge lowered his head and remained silent. Understand? What is there to understand? I don't even know if I really have parents or not.
"Lin Ge, I remember you telling me that in your imagination, your father must be a hero …" Fang Ya said. "Actually, I think that it doesn't matter if he is a hero or not. Even if he is an ordinary person, he is still your father. Even if he is a wrongdoer, he is still your father. What do you think? "
Lin Ge nodded his head. Yes, no matter what, no matter what he did, his father is still his father. This is a fact that can never be changed.
"Actually, I have thought about it." Lin Ge suddenly said with a wry smile. "Even if he is a beggar, a criminal, or a bad person, if I have the chance to meet him, I will feel lucky."
Fang Ya was surprised that Lin Ge would have such thoughts.
"Let's make an analogy. It is like a child who got a zero and was expelled from school. However, in order to prevent his parents from beating him, he wrote a letter to his parents. " Lin Ge said, "In the letter, he wrote, 'Dad, Mom, I have let you down. I played with fire in school and accidentally set the school on fire. The school building burned down and many of my classmates were unable to be saved in time. Now, the hospital has sent news that some of them might not be able to be saved …"
Lin Ge still had the wry smile on his face. "He wrote that to make his parents accept the greatest helplessness … Then, he wrote, 'Actually, I am just joking. My dear parents, there is actually one small thing that is true. I got a zero and was expelled from school.'"
Fang Ya was stunned. She did not know what Lin Ge meant by that.
"Compared to burning down the school and killing the students, his expulsion is really a small matter." Lin Ge said calmly, "Say that his parents will be able to accept this fact and will even feel lucky. Lucky that their son was only asked to leave and didn't burn down the school."
Fang Ya understood that Lin Ge was using his own feelings. He was like the parents in the story. He had already accepted the greatest helplessness and nothing could make him feel more helpless. He could accept everything. Everything would be much easier than what he had already accepted.
Knowing that Lin Ge could think like that, Fang Ya was relieved. "I really did not expect you to think like that … Okay, let's not talk about this anymore. Hurry up and eat before it gets cold. I will go and see if the pork trotters for Brother Yun are ready."
"Okay." Lin Ge smiled and nodded.
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