At 3: 30 in the afternoon.
There was still half an hour before school was over, but the surroundings were already crowded with people.
There was no need to guess that these were all parents who came to pick up their children.
Chen Xi was a young man in his twenties. Standing in the middle of a group of uncles and aunties, he looked like a crane in a flock of chicken.
The children were playing games on the playground of the kindergarten.
Chen Xi looked at the little fellow across the wall and found that she was playing happily on the slide and didn't notice him standing outside the wall.
It seemed that she was so happy that she forgot to look for PaPa, which made Chen Xi feel a lot more at ease.
He was really afraid that Niannian would not be able to adapt to the environment of the kindergarten.
He couldn't let the child suffer from strange diseases such as autism and depression, because these were related to mental health and other diseases. He really couldn't deal with them …
Chen Xi stood outside the wall and looked at Niannian. At this time, an aunt suddenly reached out and patted him.
"Hey, young man, are you the child of Sister Zhang's family?"
Chen Xi looked back and saw a big sister standing behind him with a smile on her face.
It was the fat aunt he met when he just entered the community on the first day he came back.
"Ah? Yes, I live in Block 5, Unit 1, Room 302. Auntie, who are you? "
"Hey, I always feel that you are a little familiar. I seem to have seen you several times in the community. Just now, I suddenly saw Niannian inside, so I thought, could Niannian be your child … My surname is Qian, you can call me Auntie Qian. My grandson is also inside. Look, it's that troublemaker. "
As the fat aunt spoke, she smiled and pointed to the boy running like the wind on the playground.
Looking at her posture, it seemed that she had completely forgotten that she had once regarded Chen Xi as a lunatic beggar.
"Hello, Auntie Qian, I'm working outside and just came home for a while, so I can't even recognize all the neighbors next door …"
"It's okay, you'll know them after a while."
Auntie Qian waved her hand and said with a smile, "Let me tell you, your Niannian is the most obedient child in our community. The little girl is so cute. Our Pengpeng likes to play with her the most."
"Really? Hehe … "
Chen Xi smiled politely.
Perhaps it was because he was not used to dealing with uncles and aunties, so he did not know what to say now. He could only laugh and listen to Aunty Qian's nagging.
"That's a must. Last time, I teased that silly boy of mine, saying that when he grows up, I'll marry Niannian to him. Sigh, you didn't see it. At that time, that silly kid's face was as red as a monkey's butt. He was so embarrassed that he could die. "
"Really?"
"Of course. You don't say, the four or five-year-old children these days are much smarter than we were back then. They're only a little older, and they can already tell who's good-looking and who's not. Many children in the neighborhood liked to play with Niannian. However, Big Sister Zhang was the only one who took care of the children in the past, so she didn't have much time to take Niannian out to play. Since you're back, you should bring Niannian out more often in the future … "
Hearing this, Chen Xi still nodded with a smile on his face, but he suddenly had some vigilance in his heart.
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Martinson believed that children around the age of 3 would have the consciousness and behavior of love towards the opposite sex.
Children have a strong thirst for knowledge, and they are very concerned about everything, including the human organs.
Sometimes it's a person, sometimes it's between partners of the opposite sex, or they let each other see the X organ, or touch it with their hands.
The forms of expression are mostly games such as [Imitating the Doctor], [Lifting the Skirt], [Fake Marriage], [Playing House], and so on.
According to a survey of 290 children by the Nagoya Youth Association in 1970, 201 of them did the action of lifting the skirt, and 70% of the children stopped lifting the skirt under the eyes of adults, 167 peeked into the toilet, 164 peeked from under the skirt, and 108 played with the X organ.
It can be seen that this is a common behavior among children, and it's impossible to effectively avoid it.
Thinking of this, Chen Xi faintly felt a little uncomfortable.
Dare to have ideas about my daughter?
No, I have to find an opportunity to popularize Niannian with the knowledge of sex education …
Human's sexual psychology, its development and the formation of gender roles have a certain law. Generally, if it is allowed to develop naturally, the result is often normal; but if some incorrect education methods are imposed on the child, it is very likely to lead to a deformed result.
Especially for children between 3 and 5 years old, through sex education, the child's sex should be recognized by society and individuals in the sense of sociology of sex and psychology.
If the child is found to have an incorrect performance in sex, it should be calmly and patiently corrected, and naturally guided, and should not be scolded or intimidated.
For example, seeing a child playing with the X organ, some mothers will angrily stop them: "Don't move!" "Dirty! Don't touch this place! "" It's so embarrassing! Don't touch it in the future! "
Or forcibly pull it away, or even give a beating.
In fact, this can easily affect the child from childhood to form a misconception: X organ is dirty, can't be seen, and can't be touched. Therefore, all activities related to X must be suppressed, or else they will be punished.
Children are in this relatively closed or conservative environment for a long time, and their sexual needs will be visibly or invisibly suppressed. If it is serious, it will even lead to physical and mental disorders or diseases.
Therefore, to let nature take its course and guide correctly is the only effective and correct way.
Perhaps it was because of the mischievous traditional ideas, after chatting with Aunt Qian, Chen Xi's mood was very complicated.
After all, Niannian was a girl, so as a father, he always felt that his daughter was at a disadvantage …
Although Chen Xi also understood that it was a child's mischief, and it was more of their nature and instinct as human beings, he still felt a little unhappy …
Very unhappy …
Very unhappy …
At four o 'clock in the afternoon, the kindergarten was over.
Chen Xi squeezed to the school gate, and the little girl saw Chen Xi in the crowd at a glance.
She shouted "Papa" and wanted to get out of the iron gate, but she was stopped by Teacher Wang in time.
The children in the kindergarten were not picked up by just anyone. When Teacher Wang saw Chen Xi, she held Niannian's hand and led the little girl out of the school gate.
"Papa!"
As soon as the little girl stepped through the iron gate, she threw herself on Chen Xi's lap, and then hugged Chen Xi's thigh, raised her little head and said sweetly, "Papa, I miss you so much!"
"Good girl, mua!"
Chen Xi laughed and picked up the little girl, then held her and said to Teacher Wang, "Say goodbye to your teacher."
"Goodbye, teacher!"
The little girl waved her little hand hard, and it seemed that she had a good impression of Teacher Wang.
Teacher Wang and Chen Xi said a few polite words, and then praised the little girl for being very sensible, and then she was busy sending another child off.
Chen Xi walked on the road with Niannian in his arms, and the little girl excitedly told him what she had experienced today.
"Niannian, do you like kindergarten?"
"Yes!"
Hearing this, the little girl immediately nodded heavily.
She had always played alone, so she was naturally happy to suddenly have so many friends of the same age.
"Then Papa will bring you tomorrow, okay?"
"Okay!"
"Good girl."
Chen Xi touched her little face, wondering in her heart when the little girl would say that she didn't want to go to kindergarten ….
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