"Walking side by side with me is obviously a tough task for a loner like him." — "The Man in the Condom."
Humans were social creatures.
Some Western scholars even categorized "loners who do not socialize with others" as antisocial personalities.
Because this in itself was a sign of morbidity.
Being antisocial was different from being alone.
Lonely people yearned to socialize with others. They would not be bored with anyone, and they would not even be on guard against everyone.
Antisocial people were a kind of personality defect. They usually thought highly of themselves and looked down on others, but their hearts were extremely weak. They were afraid of being stabbed, so they did not want to socialize with others.
When they had to socialize with others, antisocial people would also appear to behave strangely, strangely, and pretentiously. They always gave people a feeling of nervousness.
They were actually very pitiful. They did not necessarily have antisocial psychology or violent tendencies, but they definitely felt autistic, lost, inferior, nervous, and depressed …
They were unable to communicate with others normally, which made them prefer to be alone and live in isolation from others.
There were not many congenital factors for the formation of antisocial personality. It was mainly due to the negative influence of various subjective and objective environments, which caused the psychological distortion caused by long-term depression.
For example, if Niannian continued like this, when she went to primary school in the future, it was likely that she would be ostracized by her classmates because she did not learn to communicate with her peers. She would be treated as an anomaly by her classmates.
A little girl who only knew how to chat with cats all day. Was that not weird enough?
The results of the survey showed that about 5% to 8% of the children in primary and secondary school groups would be antisocial.
And this was already an extremely exaggerated number.
Out of 20 people, there would be one antisocial individual.
The class was a group, and antisocial children were always unable to integrate into this group. As a result, they were more likely to be ridiculed, ridiculed, ostracized, and criticized by their classmates.
This situation would gradually decrease as the child grew older.
However, this process was incomparably long for those pitiful children who were reclusive and eccentric.
They would endure all kinds of psychological pressure, but in the end, they would only become a stepping stone in the growth process of others.
Many years later, who would remember the freak who was ridiculed and teased in the class?
Who would care if that freak was doing well now?
…
Chen Xi panicked.
After all, he really couldn't cure mental illness.
After some serious consideration, he quickly discussed with Qin Ruoying, "How about … sending Niannian to kindergarten?"
Hearing this, Qin Ruoying immediately nodded.
She happened to have the same idea.
Although Qin Ruoying wanted to spend more time with Niannian, in order to give Niannian a healthy and happy environment, it was better to be cautious.
As long as it involved their children, any parent would become particularly worried. Even if there was only the slightest possibility, they had to eliminate that possibility in time.
The couple reached a consensus. Thus, Chen Xi sat beside the little fellow.
"Niannian, Daddy wants to discuss something with you, okay?"
"Hmm?"
The little fellow was busy watching cartoons. When Chen Xi walked over, he happened to block her line of sight.
After a hum, she directly lay on her side on the bed and continued to watch cartoons.
Seeing this, Chen Xi pretended to be serious and said, "Niannian, Daddy is talking to you!"
"Hmm?"
The little fellow's eyes were full of doubts. After glancing at Chen Xi, she muttered, "Papa, you're blocking me!"
"Daddy is talking to you. Pause first, or Daddy will be angry."
"Oh."
Chen Xi obviously had some weight in the little fellow's heart.
Therefore, after hesitating for a moment, she obediently took the remote control and pressed the pause button. Then, she sat up very obediently.
"Say it, Papa!"
Seeing that the little fellow was so obedient, Chen Xi nodded very satisfactorily. Then, he gently held her in his arms and asked seriously, "Niannian, do you want to go to kindergarten?"
However, when the little fellow heard his question, he didn't even think about it and immediately shook his little head like a rattle-drum.
"No! I don't want to go to kindergarten! "
This was obviously out of Chen Xi's expectation, so he quickly asked, "Why? Didn't you like kindergarten before? "
Hearing this, the little fellow pouted and replied loudly, "I don't like kindergarten!"
Perhaps to express her attitude, the little fellow even repeated, "I don't like kindergarten! I don't like it! "
She didn't play her cards according to common sense, and Chen Xi was confused.
In the past, she clearly wanted to go to kindergarten, but now she suddenly didn't want to go. She changed her mind too quickly …
Chen Xi had no choice but to patiently persuade her, "Niannian, kindergarten is very fun. The teachers teach you to draw, put on little red flowers for you, and classmates play games with you. Why don't you want to go?"
Hearing Chen Xi's words, the little fellow instantly exploded.
She didn't know why she suddenly became muddle-headed.
After pushing Chen Xi's arm away, she lay on the bed and rolled left and right, constantly muttering, "I don't want to go! I don't want to go! I don't like kindergarten! "
Chen Xi was stunned.
When did Niannian become like this?
She was simply a naughty child!
Was there really a problem with his teaching methods?
He still remembered that when he first came back, Niannian was very obedient, obedient and sensible.
How long had he been taking care of Niannian?
How did he raise the child like this …
Thinking of this, Chen Xi couldn't help but fall into deep reflection.
Seeing that the little fellow had flipped out, Qin Ruoying also sat next to her.
After gently helping the little fellow up, she patiently asked, "Niannian, can you tell us why you don't want to go to kindergarten?"
After hearing this question, the little fellow was stunned for a moment.
But right after that, she burst into tears.
This time, Qin Ruoying also panicked. She quickly took her into her arms and comforted her softly.
"Niannian, don't cry. If you don't want to go, we won't force you. But you have to tell us why you don't want to go, right?"
The little fellow cried miserably.
Seeing this, Chen Xi hurriedly went to the bathroom and brought her a hot towel.
The husband and wife worked together and spent a great deal of effort to stop the little fellow from crying.
After a while, the little fellow sobbed, pursed her lips, and said very sadly, "I don't want to go to kindergarten. I want to be with PaPa and MaMa …"
Hearing this, Qin Ruoying couldn't help but look at Chen Xi, and instantly understood the reason.
This poor child …
She was raised by Aunt Zhang alone before, and her parents were never by her side.
Therefore, when the little fellow had her parents again, she didn't want to be separated from them for a moment.
And this was obviously the root cause of her recent muddle-headedness.
Since the child said so, it was obvious that she couldn't go to kindergarten.
Qin Ruoying held Niannian in her arms and thought for a while. Suddenly, she said to Chen Xi, "How about we change the way?"
"What way?"
"Look at the cold weather, there aren't many parents who would bring their children out to play …"
"Niannian doesn't want to go to kindergarten. It's definitely not a way to go on …"
"How about this …"
"Let's open a bookstore, or a restaurant, or a coffee shop, so that Niannian can meet many strangers …"
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